
Abumbi
II, the 11th fon, or king, of Bafut, Cameroon, has close to 100 wives.
They weren't all his to start. According to local tradition, when a fon
dies, his successor inherits all his wives and then marries his own
queens.
"The queens have a great
role to play in the fondom," notes Prince Nickson, also of Bafut,
noting that it is up to these women behind the man to shape him in his
kingly role.
"Behind every successful man must be a very successful, staunch woman," says Abumbi's third wife, Queen Constance.
"Our
tradition has it that when you are king, the elderly wives remain to
hand down the tradition to the younger wives, and also to teach the king
the tradition because the king had been a prince, not a king."
Despite the fact that polygamy is legal in Cameroon, the data shows that there are far fewer polygamous marriages
across the African continent. The practice is being challenged by
changing values, the spread of the Christian faith, the growing appeal
of the western way of life but also the rising costs of having large
families. It is against this backdrop that Cameroon's traditional rulers
must walk the fine line between two often conflicting cultures.
"During
colonialism other values came in, of governance, different from the
traditional values we had and therefore there is this constant conflict
between the traditional values and modern western values," admits Fon
Abumbi II, who has ruled Bafut, the largest fondom in the region, for 47
years.
"My
role is to blend them, to find the way forward so my subjects can enjoy
the fruits of development and modernity without destroying their
culture. Without a culture, you are not a human being, you are an
animal. And therefore the chieftaincy institution is the guarantor of
our culture."
source: www.cnn.com
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